We are living in a scamming generation where the heart of man is deeply and difficult to discern. Many people have supposed that courting or being in a relationship for 6 months down the line is enough to know each other for marriage but it is a big mistake in this whatsapp generation, some people are destitute in life and want a niche for themselves per the opportunity available and not naturally feeling love for such persons, therefore in other to be on the safer side of choosing the right person into marriage you need a good yard stick for measuring who a good wife or husband is and not only be in the relationship for 6 months: Every marriage would stand in the test of time from 4 -5 years after marriage and the choice you make will tell if the woman you chose was the right one or the man you chose was the right person. Marriages are to be enjoyed and endured just as it reflects the church of the Lord, no marriage or relationship can be better than that of Jesus and the church, but one thing common with the Lord and the church is endurance with patience, in the days of adversities are when one is known to be matured and not in the days of abundance, every wise person will have enough before his wedding event and that could be compared to the days of abundance, five years down the line, the joy of marriage (flesh) is in reality declining leaving the (Bone) of the marriage which is endurance and every bad wife or husband will be exposed.
What you are not aware are as follows:
1. The attitudes of the siblings or both husband and the wife
2. The evil foundations laid in the family that would fight your marriage
3. Misfortunes that happens to everyone in the course of life
4. Barrenness in the family of your wife
5. Sexual weakness in the blood of your husband after 5 years
6. Financial setbacks from both sides after 5 years
7. The hidden temperament of both the man and woman after 5 years
8. generational issues relating to the success of the people
9. the history of others who have tasted similar cases from the same blood line
10. The future of the person you are marrying Mostly these things are not questioned before the 6 months courtship period expires and we limit ourselves to only the person we are studying which is very dangerous.
What basically makes marriage is the root of the person, backed with faith of a particular kind of religion.
Yes, is true, my mother is not the one marrying but the presence of my mother can influence my marriage in so many ways and how my mother treated any other woman who married to my brother is a big factor that needs to be considered for a better decision to be made. The treatment of the siblings of my wife by me will have effect on the well being of my wife, so you see that studying in the relationship is not 6 months job if we were to allocate period such as this to investigate. We are however, living in a fast executing issues world where many people would not want to go through all these things, hence 1 out of every 2 marriages in Ghana collapses 5 years down the line.
The event of wedding blinds so many women that they don’t do the necessary investigation before even accepting marriage proposals, a man who has a set of sofa chairs, living in the two bed room apartment, with a job of salary of 1500.00 ghs, who dresses nice to you, shall not be the prerequisite of good husband or good marital material; what really makes that man is his content that will manifest to you in the 5 years later in marriage with him.
What makes the man is the root of the man, the kind of heart the father of the man had and how he has been raised, which family he was raised from, and what is his faith and understanding of marriage. In all humility I want to submit, that counseling session for 6 months is not enough for one to fully understand the mystery of marriage and therefore people are advised to understand it by themselves through proper investigation and reading the word of God and praying for deeper knowledge about marriage. I also want to say that “there was a stem from the root of Jesse and not the root of Ahab the king “for the work of salvation to the gentiles, the root of a man is very important in this world of marriage.
There have been many people who anticipated good marriages on the grounds of good living by the man but hey! , such women would have wished not to have seen such men at all in their lives, this indicates to me that “not all that glitters are Gold” the elders said, this is the time for us to seek marriages on proper grounds so as to reduce the divorce rate in the Christian society .
There was a reason for Abraham to send for a wife from his father’s root, look! You can be spiritual towards this article but I tell you, the root of your boy friend or girl friend you intend to marry is very important to investigate. The blood of Jesus does not change the DNA of a family but brings deliverance to the individuals of the family, no one born of family no matter how Christian the father or the mother was , and the child looked like the man Jesus on the wall but rather resembles either the mother, father or even a family member, this is blood and God has made it so, no matter religious a gentile can be , he can only be part of the divine nature and would not be the source of salvation as Jesus in the Book of John with the woman at the well of Jacob said, “ it is from the Jews that salvation comes”. Lets face it this by saying, know the blood of your partner and that can only be known by proper investigation.
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